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Break up!

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by hunterguy86, Sep 20, 2006.

  1. hunterguy86

    hunterguy86 1/2 ton status

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    Well I've tried to hold it together as long as I could but today is the day me and the gf break it off. We are wanting diffrent things out of the relationship and its just not working. I've thought and prayed about this for a while. This is what has to be done. Wish me luck.
     
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    do what you gotta do, if its not workin then your doin the right thing. good luck.;)
     
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    Ya, if you guys are heading in different directions.. It is best to find out now then down the road when it is more complicated...
     
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    Thats kinda what I was thinking. I havent been able to talk to her yet. Shes been avoiding me all day.
     
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    NO SH!T!!!! Sometimes I look back at my previous marraige and see some signs that I was "pushing" a situation that maybe I should have stayed out of. Kind or like I was settling. Don't get me wrong. I loved her and a part of me will always love her. It's just that sometimes you have to step back and see things from another perspective. (And I'm not just talking about pullin gyour head outta your a$$!!!:doah: )
     
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    I feel this way about her. I felt like I was settling as well. I really hope her and I get to talk about this tonight. I just want this situation resolved.
     
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    Desert Rat Fetch the comfy chair

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    There are a bazillion women out there. Take your time and do your homework no different than choosing a good school, home, or car. A relationship is built with your head, not just your heart. Sometimes emotions can be our own worst enemy.
     
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    Yeah, I married my first wife knowing that we didn't get along that well, except in the sack...........:rolleyes:
     
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    good luck brother. i hope you two are able to do this easy like.
     
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    I hope it's going well...
     
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    Break ups always suck! good luck man. remember you've always got an ear that will listen round here!
     
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    Be sure to test drive as many as can. There's nothing better than getting behind the wheel of a new ride and takin' her for a spin. Ah, yes. You gotta love that new car smell :haha: :haha: :haha: :haha: :haha:
     
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    Well ya'll its done. I need a beer.
     
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    There, I fixed it. Now go have a beer or five and relax. I'm sure it wasn't easy, but doing the right thing often isn't.
     
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    Seriuosly, all you have to do is say "OK I'll give you space if that's what you want if you need me I'll be here" and hang up and don't call her back. She'll be calling you in a day or so. If she doesn't call you back then it wasn't meant to be. Keep yourself busy that is the only way your going to get over it. Even if you want to call her just to say "hi" don't. You have to act like you don't care.
     

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