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Give me some ideas of topic conversations on a first date....

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by thatK30guy, Oct 12, 2006.

  1. thatK30guy

    thatK30guy 1 ton status Premium Member

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    I've been out of the game for 13 years. I'm old and washed out. I've found a lady I'm getting ready to ask out and now am asking for help from the brotherhood on what subjects do you guys talk about on a first date? I don't wanna hurt myself thinking of things to start or talk about. Give me some ideas. I have a few but would like to know what you guys do in order to keep the ball rolling.
    BTW, if you guys have to know, this particular lady is H.O.T.T. :bow: About 5 years younger than me, never married and no kids. She is a school teacher. Blonde, athletic, takes care of herself, etc., etc. A knockout to sum it up. I can already see her as a future wife material. We've talked before but only at school and on the subject of my daughter, whom is her student. :wink1: :bow:
    So, give me some good stuff. No remarks like "bang her in the butt", etc. I'm so old its not funny. :doah:
     
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    cbbr 1 ton status GMOTM Winner

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    Listen more than you talk. Ask her questions. Find things that you have in common. Don't stress or push conversation in a preplanned direction.
     
  3. BulldogK5

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    Don't talk about your daughter or her classes in a specific way. This might make things a little awkward later on if something was inadvertently said in a negative way. Other than that, just like cbbr said.
     
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    Like cbbr said. Ask alot of questions about her and listen intently... Women like to talk. :) Ask her about work, what she likes to do, abotu her family, if she is into sports or working out... Comment that he looks, smell great...

    Try not to stare at hit breastages! ;) :haha:
     
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    Bingo. The more you listen, the more you will be labeled "the sensitive type". Women can't resist it. If she starts asking you alot of questions and listening intensely, the ploy has worked!!!!
     
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    Be an asshole, they always go for the assholes. Then bang her in the butt. :D
     
  7. NEK5

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    :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
     
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    Couldn't have said it better myself.

    Anal.....Dealbreaker......end
     
  9. 3 on the tree

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    Ask her what she likes to do for fun/relaxation. The answer will be a BIG CLUE as to your compatability. Like everyone else said, just hop on the conversation train, let her be the conductor. Good luck, first date is the biggie!!!!
     
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    Take her wheeling, ask her about herself, and tell her about yourself. Heck, I'm not sure what the main topics should be.
     
  11. Desert Rat

    Desert Rat Fetch the comfy chair

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    Wait until the second date to ask her about anal intrusion. Do as Emmettology said, listen, listen, listen. Not only will this endear you to her, but you can find out a lot of info about her. I would be curious as to why she isn't married yet. Some of her topics of conversation may give you a clue. Keep the subject light though. If you get too heavy right away, she may bolt.
     
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    Funny how you all ass-u-me that she'll say "yes" when he asks her... :haha: :haha: :haha:

    Oh yah, Wes... if she does happen to agree, please talk as little as possible... you don't want her to find out what an a-hole you are on the first date:wink1:
     
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    Nothing like expert advice.:haha:
     
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    Valid point.

    John
     
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    I'd like to chime in, but I have no freakin' clue. Probably why I am single and divorced :confused:

    But my first thought were about the following:

    1 - Listen attentively. Don't just hear her.
    2 - Don't get too deep. If it works out, there is plenty of time for that later.
    3 - Look at her when you talk to her and listening to her.

    I've always thought that drinks (coffe or a beer) are better first dates than meals. They give the opportunity to go on, but don't require the lenghty food if it isn't working.

    I wish you the best of luck Wes. She sounds like a great possibility and since it appears I may be forever single, maybe I can live vicariously through you :D
     
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    Not everyone caves to societal pressures and gets married. Maybe she hasn't found the right person, maybe she does think marriage is for her... there's a million different reasons why people don't get married. It's not like she's a freak or something :rolleyes:
     
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    :rotfl:

    I'm so glad your feeling better Cheryle. :D
     
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    What NOT to say!...

    Whatever you do, DONT ask her IF ...

    She's been tested for HIV,or other sexually transmitted diseases!..

    She's a lesbian,seeing she's never been married,and is a teacher!..

    She think's YOUR hot!..

    She makes a lot of money!..

    She likes "kinky" sex...or if she "swallows"..:eek1:

    She'd like to be your husband!..(that usually results in them leaving a posi burnout as they leave!--either that,or you'll be eloping that night!)..:p:

    (all these questions can wait until the SECOND date--IF your lucky enough to get one that is...)


    But I've never really dated ,and never had a serious relationship with a woman yet(or anyone else either:shocked: )--so my "Advice" might not be worth a dime!...:shame:


    Have fun!--hope you get lucky!..:D
     
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    If she smokes she pokes...
     
  20. gjk5

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    Nice 'fumes!



    I think you ought to start off in this order:


    Politics

    Religion

    Abortion

    Gay Marriage

    Then right back to politics.






    Alright, seriously it has been a loooong time for me but if I remember correctly it would generally start off with some questions about her (where are you from, family etc.) and let her talk for as long as she wants and eventually she'll ask about you. Then start lying.:haha: (JK)

    I would suggest keeping it pretty light and innocuous for the first date for sure though, nothing too serious, just getting to know one another.
     

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