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how long are you supposed to wait for a second date?

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by 84k5, May 2, 2004.

  1. 84k5

    84k5 1/2 ton status

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    I went on a first date with a girl today. It went well, and I want to ask her out again.

    Could I ask her to dinner for thursday night or is that too quick? /forums/images/graemlins/thinking.gif
     
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    if she seemed to like you call and ask her now. why wait if you enjoy each others company.just tell her you had fun and would like to go out again.either way you'll now were you stand. /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif /forums/images/graemlins/k5.gifto /forums/images/graemlins/truck.gif
     
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    Nah, jump on it.
     
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    Sounds good to me. Draw up a plan and run with it. /forums/images/graemlins/thumb.gif
     
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    you mean you didnt end the date with "can i see you again?"
     
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    I have been dating my girl for 2.5 years and we went on our first date on Thurday night and we went out again on Friday night and Saturday night /forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif Go get AWN it man...


    Chris
     
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    Just call 'er up and get a date planned!
    Good luck /forums/images/graemlins/thumb.gif
     
  8. 84k5

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    you mean you didnt end the date with "can i see you again?"

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    No, I screwed up. /forums/images/graemlins/crazy.gif
     
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    Well, didja call her? /forums/images/graemlins/ears.gif
     
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    yea,yea, didja? /forums/images/graemlins/rotfl.gif /forums/images/graemlins/k5.gifto /forums/images/graemlins/truck.gif
     
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    i think you may have really screwed up. seems if the date went that well that it would have come up in conversation(second outing/date). The first date is the hardest, the second, if right should come much easier.

    Just call her and talk about stuff other than going out again. If she wants to, believe me you'll get the hint....unless she is shy or something. If she is shy, then all the above is a bunch of crap and just call her up and ask her out /forums/images/graemlins/grind.gif
     
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    Maybe I should clarify. I didn't say, 'can I see you again.' As we were leaving she said something like 'I had a good time, I'll see you around.' I guess that could have been just bs you say as your leaving, but I think she likes me.

    So, I don't think I'm screwed really.

    I didn't call her yet, probably tomorrow.
     
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    [ QUOTE ]
    Could I ask her to dinner for thursday night or is that too quick? /forums/images/graemlins/thinking.gif

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    if she's anywhere near interested, thursday should be fine....

    j
     
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    Call her now! /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif
     
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    I'll see you around

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    I can't speak for everybody but that's what I tell chicks I don't want to see ever again. That's also what they tell me. /forums/images/graemlins/doah.gif The situation would've been much better iffen she said: "We should do this again sometime."
    Just my two cents...
     
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    The situation would've been much better iffen she said: "We should to this again sometime."
    Just my two cents...

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    it would have been even better if she said u wanna come in for a while? /forums/images/graemlins/pimp1.gif
     
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    Yeah that's true. I guess I'll see when I call her.
     
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    hey man if u really liked her dont wait. she might meet "joe cool" the next day. call her now or even go knock on her bedroom window she'll really like that /forums/images/graemlins/ignore.gif
     

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