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Looks like the slammer for me...

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by TruckNutzDude, Mar 24, 2006.

  1. TruckNutzDude

    TruckNutzDude 1/2 ton status

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    Have you ever been afraid because you broke a restraining order with an apology email? It's kind of sad how guilt can make you guilty of a crime... I hate this system of law in Massachusettes. I got kicked out of my house, served a restraining order, been accused of hitting my ex in the face and now she's accusing me of stalking her. I'm facing possible jail time becuase I was dumb enough to write her an email apologizing for yelling at her and hurting her feelings hoping she might drop the restraining order. Of course that backfired because two days before I wrote that email she had made a complaint that I contacted her six times. Two days after the email I got a summons to an arrainment on the 6th of April. I realize I did break the restraining order by sending her an email but the six times she's claiming are total crap just like her saying I hit her in the face. I've hired an attourney but I'm not sure how much it will do since she has written proof of me violating the order at least once. It really sucks to be in my shoes right now... And I just dropped off my 1 ton's on thursday, hopefully I'll be a free man when they're finished. :doah:
     
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    Crap!!!!! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
     
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    man that sucks. sounds like your better off
     
  4. TruckNutzDude

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    After two years of her begging me to marry her you'd think things would be different. It's really hard to believe this is real, it happened so fast. Literally within one hour we went from being ready to rip each others clothes off (in that good way of course) to me in a police cruiser. I didn't even get to watch the entire Nascar race because after I got done yelling at her for threatening to report my truck stolen (my truck, her name on title... my fault, should have known better :doah:) the cops were at the door for a domestic disturbance. That meant... "You're 6'4, she's crying, her mother called the us because she heard you yelling at her daughter on the phone... so you're leaving" So off I go, escorted to the nearest place I could go, MOM's. No truck for work tomorrow, no house, no clothes, nothing. Three days after I went back to my house and moved all my things out... WHAM!!! restraining order. Why? Who knows. So yes, I am better off. So if you're ever interested in someone named Nicole and she lives in Massachusettes, send me a PM and I'll tell you her last name so you don't end up in my shoes. She's got to be the most psychotic girl I've ever met. Her mood swings will take your head off and leave you standing there wondering what happened. I'd post a pic but I only saved the x-rated ones and I'd rather not show you guys my twig and berries... :thumb:
     
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    Once you got served the restraining order, you should have followed it to the letter............................
     
  6. TruckNutzDude

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    When you're too drunk to think, you don't think much. :rolleyes:

    Depression + beer = I do stupid sh*t!

    But you are correct sir. At least I know better now (though it's a little late)
     
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    if you have a good lawyer and judge isn't pissed-off you'll have a better chance. is there any actual evidence that she could use to say that you hit her (i.e bruise, scrape, any marks on her skin)?

    btw, unless you also get a restraining order against her and she contacts you while her restraing order against you is in effect you'll be guilty of violating a no-contact order. :eek1: though, I'm sure your attorney has gone over these and other points of the matter with you. and the truck in her name :doah:

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    like 95.62375% chicks are wacked

    yes I did do the math!!!

    every one has to get one so they can learn from.

    yours was mad wacked though

    hope it gets better.:thumb:
     
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    you have probably heard this a dozen times but you should have followed the law. you do not have any kids so you are lucky there. now move on and dont look back. once its over , its over. i mean think about it. would you ever want to get back together with her?
    once a woman turns to the bad, they never change back, so even if you two worked things out, she would hold this over your head forever with her finger on the dial getting ready to involve the law.
    get on with your life dude.More
     
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    I agree with the "follow the law" suggestions. That said, Judges will normally consider the written contact so make sure to talk to your lawyer about bringing a copy to court. Also,if you can't control yourself when you drink, don't drink. Its beter than jail.
     
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    That's what you get for being a stalker.
     
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    here's a thought........STOP DOING STUPID S**T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    your an adult. you know the difference between right and wrong I hope. if not, learn it. start making choices that benifit your life, not ruin it. THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING. YOU AND ONLY YOU are responsible for your actions. if you woman is a detriment to your life, run from that woman as fast as you can. dont be like the abusive women that ALLWAYS say he hits me but he says he's sorry, and I love him. so thats why they stay.

    Im sorry to be a bit harsh but im sick of people not taking control and responsibilty of there life, and letting it go down the toilet. I have seen it too many times in my life. I probably should not have even replied to this but damnit I hope you get out of this with out jail time and do something positive with your life. I know I dont even know you and I may be way of base, but you put it out there so this is what you might get. my advice first is to stop drinking and clear your head first. good luck.
     
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    I agree with Robert on this, start living the strait and narrow lifestyle. I'm not gonna say much else, cause NO ONE here knows the real truth. Therefore I can not say that I feel bad for You, cause so far it's a one sided story.
     
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    Personally, I've never quite figured out why people get their undies all in a wad over another person to the point where they get arrested. The moment any girlfriend told me 'I think we need time apart" was the last sentence I ever heard. There are many fish in the sea. I've been married for nearly a quarter century now and my wife knows better than to make a hollow threat designed to manipulate a circumstance, or force an issue. The day your GF started acting the fool, your bags shoud've been packed. In the legal system, women can hold the cards unless you are very careful.
     
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    I heard Brittany is availiable.....
     
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    now a sea hag skank
     
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    some people are more emotional than others.and from what i read he didn't see it coming. i was with a girl like that,we were together for 2 years and she started getting nutty.i came home from work and we talked and laughed in the kitchen,she went to the bedroom to grab something and when she came out she was nuttin up:dunno: :what: .i left . in michigan if the cops show up someone IS going to jail. even if you were just argueing about what color to paint the room.a customer of mine just bought a house with his wife and he was upstairs and she was on the bottom floor.it was summer and they had the windows open. a neighbor heard them yelling and called the police and he was arrested.:laugh: the judge understood and all charges were dropped but....can you imagine??:rolleyes:
     
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    I never saw it coming. I yelled at her because I was pissed that she would threaten to call the police on me for "stealing" the truck. She was mad at me for whatever reason she had. So I yelled, unfortunately her mother was on the phone and her mother called the police while I was downstairs watching Nascar on the couch. After the police escorted me to my mothers house I cooled down. Next day I went to my place with a rental van and moved everything I owned out of there planning on never going back. Three days after I moved out I was served the restraining order even though I hadn't been near her, spoken to her or seen her since the day I moved. She's definitely Nucking Futs and I'm concentrating more on my Trazer and model cars than anything. The good news is that I pay very little rent here w/ Mom and without supporting her habbits, buying all our groceries, half the rent, the phone bill, cable bill and gas since I ALWAYS drove, it's like doubling my income. And I actually did save a bunch of money on my car insurance... But it was for having a clean driving record for six years. :haha:
     
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    This wasn't the first time she's called the police on me either. I was thrown out of an appartment we had about six months before this she told her monther we were in an argument. Her mother showed up at my door with my landlord and an officer, I got the boot. Next she called the police on me because she threatened to drive my truck (this one was in my name) into the woods and burn it (she had keys) I retaliated and said... "well looks like your cat won't be seeing you soon." Big mistake, police were at the door in 10 minutes at 3:00 in the AM banging on my windows, ringing my door bell, calling my house, had the loud horn and everything for me to release the cat! The f-ing cat was outside the whole time and I told them that but they still accused me. They didn't care that she was going to roast my truck, they just wanted me because SHE called first. I miss her from time to time, we did have fun together, she was a good companion when she had her head on straight. If I manage to get through this without being in jail I'm not looking back. No woman is worth my freedom.
     
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    Sheesh man, I've had some rough moments in relationships over time, but never like that, and if something came close to that, it was "Seeya"! The worst I've ever had was when my wife was pregnant with my daughter and threw a cd player of mine (and I beat the cordless phone against the door frame).
    I hate to say this, but it looks like you had warning about her and you made some contribution to the nuttiness, as we all might.

    The best you can do now is move on and don't look back. Learn from it and focus elsewhere. It sounds lke that's what you're doing, so :thumb:, and good luck.
     

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