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Recent Conversations have gotten me thinking.

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by 68MUDSTUD, Feb 4, 2007.

  1. 68MUDSTUD

    68MUDSTUD OCD with shiny things

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    alright, so if youve been keeping up with my posts, you will know that im kinda goin out with this chick now. She has really good beliefs, and she is Mormon, and if you are a stalker, you will know that i am athiest. I asked her if she thought we could gbet along for any amount of time with each other. Her reply, "Well, for a little while anyway."

    I ask her why, and she doesnt really give me an answer.

    I think that if one has enough respect for another, that anything is possible. Take me for instance, like i said, i am athiest, BUT i respect people that do believe in other thing(s) and treat them equally

    So pretty much what im asking is Do you think one man and one woman could "Make it work?"
     
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    CDA 455 3/4 ton status

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    If she is active and has a testimony, I say no.
     
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    Anything can work.... if both people want it to
     
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    Hitler thought that way too...:whistle:
     
  5. 68MUDSTUD

    68MUDSTUD OCD with shiny things

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    Thats kinda what im thinkin. I dont know if she has the desire to though.
    Jeese, it seems like im getting soft these days.

    I feel like im letting myself get hurt before i actually am.

    To tell you the truth, i kinda like the risk.

    Maybe i will see how long before i can get rid of her.

    ****, now my ADD is kicked in...
     
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    Oh boy........My wife is a Christan and I am not and that has been one of the biggest problems in our marriage. Can it work! Maybe but I would almost bet that you WILL take a back seat to her religion especially if her family is close by and she need to keep up the image around them.........
     
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    It happens all the time and works... It just comes down to what each person expects from a relationship and what they're willing to sacrifice...

    Your lady friend, being LDS (the proper term for Mormon), probably aspires to marry a priesthood holder in an LDS temple. Being married to a person of the same faith in a temple is an extremely important thing to most LDS folks. Some girls do settle, usually with the hope that their husbands will join the church and they can be married in a temple someday. Of course, that leads to problems if the husband has no plans on joining the LDS church :doah:

    My prediction is you guys can be friends, and it can work out if neither of you are closed-minded jerkoffs and respect each others beliefs. But most LDS girls I know won't even date a guy if he's not "worthy" of marrying her. That's just the way it is, mang...
     
  8. 68MUDSTUD

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    well cap, were kinda dating already hahah :D :confused: :confused:
     
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    Why are you mean to me?
     
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    This reminds me of what my psychiatrist told me last time I saw her. She told me that 2 people with different beliefs could not make it in the end because you cannot raise children and have different beliefs. I say BULLSH*T! Mitch and I have been together for 2yrs he is wiccan and right now I just believe in God. If YOU want the relationship to work then it will. Somethings might have to be sacraficed but as long as your happy in the end who cares. That's just my opinion though.
     
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    What meds. are you on?
     
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    none.

    and thanks gofergirl. I saw you on MSN and hoped you would read this.
     
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    I dated a jew for awhile. I always told her our mutual distrust of Jesus was the foundation of our relationship.:haha: It can work...both people have to be willing to compromise.
     
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    I'm not on any.
     
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    Oh, well she can't be that bad then :D Who is she? I bet I know someone who knows her :)
     
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    Oh.

    The only people that see psychiatrists are usually people on some form of medications dealing with the brain.
     
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    No meds yet. I've been doing alright with just the talk therapy crap.
     
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    I'm married to an LDS, and I am totally uninterested in church/religion. Whether that makes me an atheist, an agnostic, or a just-don't-give-a-rat-ass-ist is your call.

    It took some doing, but we talked about it ... her daughter, my stepdaughter, is being raised LDS, and we all seem to be getting along.

    It's possible. Donno 'bout you young-ones (I'm in my late 30's :haha: ) but it's possible.

    -- A
     
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    Good for you :D :bow: !

    Do you like her?
     
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    mormon? crap i shouldnt have said porn the other night then
     

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