So Mitch has been working 12 hr shifts all week. I have hung out at his place for at least a couple hours each night. He hasn't had to do any work around the house. I did the dishes and cleaned up his wrapping paper mess while I was here. I didn't go over there yesterday and he had done the dishes himself, but forgot to make sure the cat had food and water. I found that when I came over here. Then I chose to fold his clothes and put them away so that I could sleep in the bed tonight. With all the stuff I've done for him this week I feel like a wife or even a maid. I just wait to see how things really are when we do get married, or when I move in here.