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Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by afroman006, May 3, 2006.

  1. afroman006

    afroman006 1/2 ton status

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    I just got a call from my girlfriend of 3 years saying she needs some space to figure out what she wants.

    The past few weeks it has been ****ty, she cant handle stress worth a **** and I dont know what to do about it. Aparently she hasnt been happy for a long time, I dont know why she's stuck around so long. I have been just peachy, but I knew something has been bugging her but she never would tell me. We have had several long talks about what to do and didnt really make any decisions, but I guess she just did. The wierd thing is, I am a bit confused, but not really hurt or pissed off, which is probably a bad sign of our relationship.

    I know "there are plenty of fish in the sea" but its hard to just walk away from a 3 year relationship. Maybe I've just gotten used to having her around or am to scared to break it off, **** if I know what to do...
     
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    beaterk20's myspace chick !!!!

    :haha:
     
  3. randy88k5

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    Yeah, I was in that same position about 5 years ago. It was the best decision she ever made. I dont have too much time to talk, as I gotta run to class, but I am really against serious lasting relationships in college. They just dont seem to work out.

    Im sure most of us have similar experiences, and can offer good advice or support.
     
  4. dyeager535

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    Yeah, where have I heard a college chick getting up the gumption to finally say there is a problem after multiple years in a relationship and saying nothing when asked before? lol
     
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    the best thing you should do is break it off and NEVER look back. when a chick wants space it usually means so she can f**k her new boyfriend that you dont know about with out feeling guilty about it. kick her to the curb but fast.
     
  6. big dan

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    Im in a similar situation right now. I dont really know what to tell you. seems like everyone here told me to just walk away but thats hard to do.
     
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    That's what happened in my case, then she went psycho after we DID get back together. Apparently, I'm the one to blame for her failing out of school, her mom sleeping around, and anything else that could go wrong in her life....

    It was a beautiful day when we broke up.
     
  8. dyeager535

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    Damn, may not have said it the same way, but it's the truth!

    "How do I justify cheating to myself...if I tell him I want space, it's ok, right? Sure."

    Amazing that probably incredibly different situations, the EXACT same thing has happened to so many people.

    There's a difference between thinking you don't care now, and feeling the same way after all is said and done.

    Oh, and the phone call thing? Thats classic cowardice right there, how about having some respect for you and saying it to your face?
     
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    sorry dude , its over, let her go.
    most likely she had met someone probably around the time you two started having problems and she is finally feeling more for the other person.
    let it go now before it goes any longer. just stay busy and walk away.
     
  10. randy88k5

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    So true. We all have projects that we need to finish off, mods that need to be done, schoolwork, etc...

    Staying busy is the key. Dont dwell on it. Her mind was already made up, nothing you do will change that. You can remind her of the good times, and she'll always remind you of the bad. It takes two comitted parties to form a long-lasting and meaningful relationships. Keep an eye out for potentials, maybe casually date, work on shcoolwork...truck...etc..., and let it go. She might come back when the grass isnt as greener than it appeared, and it might work out then, but never before.

    Consider yourself lucky to get out of it now, before it gets any deeper.

    You dont have to answer to anyone now. Enjoy yourself. That is the best advice I can give, and that is what Im doing right now. Im never going to be young and uncommitted again, so live it up...

    Good luck and godspeed
     
  11. muddysub

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    yeah my g/f of 2 yrs did the same thing... cut it off, let it go, move on youll be better for it.


    bogorange90jimmy- dude your avatar is amazing, i just blew it up and put it as the desktop pic on my brothers computer....:haha: :D :haha: :D :haha: :D :haha::D :haha: :D :haha: :D
     
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    "Run Forest, Run!!!":bow: :bow: :bow:
     
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    Man I'm ready to jump off a ****ing bridge (not serious...). Between her and my dismal grades at school I really dont have jack **** going for me right now.
     
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    Hey, finding change in glovebox's that aren't yours is always a plus, right?
     
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    drink beer, lots of it. that helps me:D












































    Get into trouble. then I dont have time to worry about girls.:D
    j/k thats prolly not the best advice but if you do be careful.
     
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    Hey You still have the brotherhood of the lounge to give You sh!t on a daily basis:D
     
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    Have you been stealing her change for the last 3 years:haha:

    J/K but seriously walk away dude.
     
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    I'm sure in the last 3 years there has been another girl that has caught Your eye that made You think. "Wow, I sure would like to bang the snot out of that". Well now is Your chance.
     
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    This is true but the problem is shes 17 and I'm 20 :doah: .
     
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    Its over. I havent felt this ****ty since my dad died.
     

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