i am wondering what it is about some people that make them realize that they have been very wrong and going about things the wrong way entirely only just as they are about to totally be out of your life permanently. I just had a conversation via telephone with my (i thought anyway) soon to be ex this afternoon. and she got #'s and info to call and pay some bills she'd stuck me with then started talking about "things". Aparently she'd talked to one of her friends and she pointed out a lot of things to Kelly (still married to me) that she hadnt seen on her own. And now she has "seen the light" so to speak. so why does it take absolute certainty of her never talking to me again to wake her up? This may be part of the mystery surrounding women that my truck infested head will never know. but she apologized and apologized and actually talked about things instead of avoiding them. so now that leaves me yes things would be fixable. <sigh> maybe I should have given up trying to figure women out long ago and just stuck w/ trucks.