A dumb question about my computer!--once in a while I get "dropped" on my AOL connection,and it signs off by itself--and it says "connection reset by Remote Host"--and I have to re-enter my password and dial up again--a PITA!--and it does this fairly often--not sure if its AOL doing it or what..WTF is a "Remote Host"??... When I go to shut the computer off after use,many times it wont "disconect" all the way,and shut off right--I get a message saying "system busy or unstable",and a box sometimes pops up with a choice of "wait","end task" or "cancel"--even if I click on "end task",the computer wont shut off all the way,and I have to push the main power button on the hard drive--then have to do a "scan disc" test the next time I turn it on when it says "illegal shutdown detected"...I know its not good to keep doing this,(shutting it off by pushing in and holding the main power button)and I think it has to do with AOL,but I'm not sure..anyone got a clue??? I also see a "double computer" picture at the bottom right of my screen next to the clock when signing off,and its usually then when I have the trouble shutting it off,but not always---does this mean another computer has been "piggy backed" onto mine,and someone is monitoring me???I clicked onto the double computer logo,and a box popped up that said"connected to the internet"and it had a "counter" running!--it had a "disconnect" tab,so I clicked on it,and it seemed to get rid of the trouble temporarily,but it still comes back sometimes!--is my computer "bugged" or something??? Wish I knew more about this thing--its like someone driving a car that only knows how to start,stop.and steer it--but if they get a flat the're screwed! Any help appreciated..