...when your mom (age 52) considers for a moment to offer to take care of your dad's ex-wife (age 81) by moving her into our house with us instead of having my half brother (age 61) place her in a nursing home. If that did happen, I really would have to wonder what my dad would think if he were still alive... his second wife taking care of his first wife. My nephew (who is older than me) and his wife tried to take care of her, but between her cat and her "mouth" as they said, they dropped her off at my brothers place rather than bringing her back where she was living alone in her house. And my brother finally quit drinking too. I wonder if he'll start again with his mom living with him now. I'm proud to be a Lundberg, but man, there's alot of unordinary things going on in this family tree.