Last time I pulled my shifter handle out I noticed cracks in the bends. Of course I heated it up to make it fit in my truck, but still, makes me worry when I'm reefing on it trying to get it out of 4WD. /forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif
I've never worried about the bolt, but like you said, I don't try to force it *much* anymore...neutral, stopped, rolling, reverse a bit, anything to get it to pop out more easily. Of course usually it still takes a bit of effort, but nothing like trying to yank it out of gear when everything is tight.
Would still rather have these problems than the chain drive cases. /forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif (no offense, this is a conversation between 205 owners heh)