Right now I can't see very well under my dash, but in the next several days I will have to drop my computer to replace my speedo cable so I should be able to get a better look at the underdash wiring.
Ok heres the info:
On my jimmy the plug that goes into the horn relay is a 3 prong, two on top side by side and one centered below. It is like your relay but turned sideways to the left.
Top left plug closest to firewall (Black Wire) goes to the end of the curved Directional Signal Connector plug.
Top right plug furthest from firewall (Green Wire) goes to back of fuse panel
Center lower plug (Red Wire) goes to back of fuse panel
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Haynes manual shows
20 guage black wire goes from horn relay to side of Dir. Sig. Conn. If you were looking at the connector like a backwards C it would be the top spot. Then on the other side of the connector 18 guage black wire goes to horn button
12 gauge dark green wire goes to back side of Bulkhead connector (fuse panel) left side 2nd row from left 2nd spot from top, then on the engine side it changes to 16 gauge brown wire and goes to voltage regulator, plug 4, they may be labeled F, 2, 3, 4
12 guage red wire splices into 2 wires both 12 guage red, one goes to back of fuse panel, 2nd row from left center top to bottom, other wire goes to light switch connector, which should be the plug on the back of the switch to turn headlights off and on.
That is the best I can do.