Just reading an article on the funerals of the Amish girls killed in the school shooting: The attack was so traumatic there is talk that the school house may soon be razed to erase the memories. But many Amish have embraced Roberts' relatives, who may receive money from a fund established to help victims and their families. Roberts' wife, Marie, was invited to attend the funeral by the family of Marian Fisher; it was unclear whether she attended. At the behest of Amish leaders, a fund has also been set up for the killer's widow and three children. full article: http://www.cnn.com/2006/US/10/06/amish.funeral.ap/index.html That article just broke my heart. Not only the deaths of these girls (one family lost two) but that these people have it in their hearts to try and reach out to the killer's widow in more ways than one.