I wont get into the details of this, but I am really in a bad spot. short story version, I was taken out for my 21st birthday, I finally got talked into dancing and I got brave and asked these 2 girls to dance..one of them looked like the type I always like and go for. With in an hour I had the feelings that I have for her now, and in that first hour she told me she was married. We ended up all going to denneys to sober up before driving home, and she asked me to call her to make sure she got home. and I did call to make sure she got home, we talked for just a minute, then I was wide awake with her on my mind. that next day I lost my phone and the her number as well...I was very relieved and kind of happy that I couldn't talk to her or contact her. The next day I bought a new phone...and she called for the past 3 weeks we have been talking, we went dancing the next friday and had an incredable time..we have had lunch a few times, and text and talk all day. She also has a son, he is 2.5 years old, and also the reason why she married her husband just 3 months ago. She is very unhappy with him, not in love, and he drinks scotch like its water. all of this makes me feel like a horable person for even allowing any feelings to develop in the first place. the attraction I have with her is not just physical, its much..much more then that. we have an amazing relationship, but on a small level and more like a friendship, she is married and thats a boundry I am not willing to cross, or be the person she crosses it with. she is very unhappy with him, but also doesnt want her child to suffer, I did meet the guy and he knows about me, she has been honest and he knows her and I talk, meet up and have danced. Of caurse he is not favoring it, but sadly it also does not have a effect on him at all like it should. where I stand is in a bad spot, if she does leave him it should be because she is unhappy and she is not inlove with him, but I dont think anything should happen between us anytime soon if they do seperate, she needs to get her situation figured out, then move on with her heart. I dont know, I am a freakin iddiot I feel like a bad person because of this, I feel guilty and wrong, and I feel for her husband. On the other side I have these amazing one of a kind feeling for her, not the lusting that every 21 year old has, but real amazing feelings. start the flaming..