well i went to the friend of the court today.and the sap that i am i gave the wife a ride. she said we could split the cost of parking.i told her i was gonna miss a day and a halfs pay with these two dates and she said so was she!!!SHE started this,i don't care how much pay she loses.any way ,the ride down was fun i ran 6 yellow lights and one red. michigan ave changes the speed limmit from 40 to 45 to 30 to 35 to 25 so its hard to time the lights.and i got a orange cone jammed under my front axle.it went out in the street as they were putting them out. i drug it aboot 20 foot.they guys were laughing as i carried it back.so we get down town DEtroit and as usual no where to park.i fianaly find a lot and i have to give HABEEB my keys cuz he parks me behind three cars." can you drive a stick shift?" good good veddy good" he says. so we walk a few blocks and get in the building and have to take off our shoes and coats and hand over everything,then get waved down with a metal detector THEN walk through one.WTF!!! so up the elevator we go and wait in a room with a bunck of other folks.all bitching aboot there wives and telling there stories. she couldn't run from those stories. then she hears another lady yelling cuz she hasn't received her first check yet after 9 months.she went in first and when she came out i thought she was gonna cry.she did not get or hear what she wanted. she acually thought she was gonna get money as soon as she filed back in august." they don't care about me at all or what i need " she said. and you thought lady!i already give her more than she will get from the court.BUT once they start taking it outa my check it could be months.man,i've been wanting to tell her this was gonna happen but i waited for it to realy happen.so i look less like an ass.and now all the so called athuoraty figures she trusted don't seem to care about her like i do.