I’d like to change the ratio but that’ll have to wait. Just have to get it on the road again.. I found a carrier online for $100. I don’t want open and I don’t want the g80 again out of nervousness of locking it up again the highway. So I was going to see if I could find a lsd carrier because that would be my happy medium .. how much better are the lsd compared to open carriers?
14SF G80's hold up pretty well. I've seen damaged ones, but thus far it appears the carriers can take a failure of the locking mechanism, where the 10 bolts can't. That's the rub with the G80...it's more likely to have problems than an open diff or locked rear, but its also seamless in operation, and provides superior traction in conditions MOST people need it to.
I don't consider LSD's an option in trucks. Trucks weigh far more than cars, and are more often in situations where a majority of weight is on one wheel. LSD's will slip under those conditions. The closest I'd consider in a truck to an LSD is the Detroit Truetrac, but under the right conditions (one wheel with zero traction, such as up in the air, also probably one wheel on ice) those too "revert" to open differential performance.
From all I've read of people who run mud, a true locker of some sort is necessary. Air locker, e-locker (I see Eaton now has a rear diff that operates basically like an automatic transmission to lock up), standard locker, or even a spool.
I'd dump zero dollars into ANY 10 or 12 bolt if I was doing anything other than using your truck to get to the mall, and drove it like an 80 year old near blind person at night. I enjoy accelerating and I don't like worrying about the rear end (having destroyed a 10 bolt G80 on the street with 33's), the 14SF IMO is a happy medium that keeps you from worrying about most failures, without the expense, weight, wheels, and clearance you would lose with a 14FF. The 14FF strength-wise is a superior axle assembly, just unnecessary IMO from what you describe. The 14SF would have a pretty significant "safety" margin from what you describe your driving habits to be, and tire size.
Note: The OPEN carrier 10/12 bolts seem to hold up fine, but an open diff isn't comparable in traction. If you need a real traction aid (not LSD) I would consider the 10/12 bolts iffy enough to as not spend the money on them.