I've been out of the game for 13 years. I'm old and washed out. I've found a lady I'm getting ready to ask out and now am asking for help from the brotherhood on what subjects do you guys talk about on a first date? I don't wanna hurt myself thinking of things to start or talk about. Give me some ideas. I have a few but would like to know what you guys do in order to keep the ball rolling. BTW, if you guys have to know, this particular lady is H.O.T.T. About 5 years younger than me, never married and no kids. She is a school teacher. Blonde, athletic, takes care of herself, etc., etc. A knockout to sum it up. I can already see her as a future wife material. We've talked before but only at school and on the subject of my daughter, whom is her student. So, give me some good stuff. No remarks like "bang her in the butt", etc. I'm so old its not funny.