not sure how to explain this. i am not a jealious person, but my wife's past seems to pop up every so often and i have a question. she was in a bad relationship for 6 years before she met me. this guy even called her every so often after her and i were dating, but finally stopped. she even saw him once in town and when she told him we were getting married, he offered to marry her, but she laughed at him and we havent heard from him since. now on another note, while she was with this guy she became real good friends with one of his brothers. well this brother killed himself back in 2003. she talks of him every so often, and says how they always talked and hung out, she has said how they were great friends. well 2 years later , my wifes asks me if it would bother me if she visited the brothers gravesite on the anniversary of his death this coming sunday. last year she didnt say anything but this year she does. i was thinking we finally moved on in our life and all her past was just that , in the past. for some reason this is bothering me and i do not know if i should be letting it.