Not sure the best way to put this so I will just spew my brain. Please bear with me. As a background I just got out of a close to 5 year relationship about 6 months ago, and was feelin pretty crappy for a bit after it. I wasent too intrested in getting into another relationship at the time. Anyways fastforward 6 months to now. I have really started to enjoy the company of one of my good friends. She is a very outgoing no BS kinda girl and I have known her and been friends with her for years. Problem is she is big into the bar scene and I hate the bar, almost always get into a fight blah blah. I also know she can be very clingy and doesn't let things go. She works two jobs and is brutal with money. All things I really don't want in a relationship. Should be obvious then right? Well, thing is I know all of this and still can't stop myself from liking her. Other thing is she is part of my group of friends and she is good friends with everyone in it. If we did get together and things went south, then that could throw a real big wrench in the gears, and I don't want to f*** up some real good friendships that have been there for 18 or so years. Other thing is I don't even know if she likes me or not, I convince myself not then I get all kinds of signs that she does. Examples, she wanted me to come over and put up a bunch of shelves and mirrors and crap at her new place and always wants me to fix her car. Another one is just last night watching the Super Bowl she cuddled with me almost the entire game... What do I do Boys and Girls? My other option is my friends Girl friend told me that her friend really likes me and wants to go on a date. Should I do that and just try to take my mind off the whole situation? Thanks for putting up with my long ass confusing all over the place post. Any input is greatly appreciated at this point.