Just wondering... Does a big rock on a woman's hand mean that her husband loves her more than if she had only a gold band? Or is it that he is a fool that is controlled by said woman who demands a big rock because she wants to show off to her friends? Or he feels like he really needs to show her how much he cares, but he's inadequate at expressing his emotions and feelings of love, and therefore unnecessarily overcompensates by buying a big rock? Or is he insecure in the relationship? Maybe someone can explain to me the benifits of an expensive ring? I think it's a meticulously operated scam by the jewelry shops to extract $$$ from men during an emotionally sensitive time by tricking them into buying an expensive ring... "to show her how much you really care..." .