OK, so this is messed up, but it looks like it might be the path my wife and I are headed down. After nine years of nothing but fighting and screaming at each other we may be calling it quits. I'm just curious as to what all to look forward to if this fate should befall me. Mostly what can I expect to happen with the kids, cause that's gonna kill me. I could bout care less if I have to deal with my wife ever again, but I can't bear the thought of losing my kids. I'm not worried about my truck since it's already in someone elses name to prevent her from taking it in spite. But I just wonderd if some of you that have been through this could enlighten me so that it isn't all a big shock if she decides to go this route.