These last couple weeks have also been a good time for reflection and getting our minds right for 2019, as I’m sure it has been for many of you. We have realized in 2018, the hard way, that we are in a season of life where we just aren’t really able to do as much as we want to do, primarily because our boys are at an age where they require significant attention from both of us. This translates into not really being able to work on projects (truck or house) in the evenings and on weekends, which means most of my time off in 2019 will be reserved for those activities, so that I can reserve evenings and weekends for my family. Thanks to the Lord, events have played out in such a way as to have released us from commitments we have made to others, which gives us back time to spend taking care of things at home (although I would have fulfilled those commitments had I not been released. I’m not one to back out of commitments lightly). This puts us in a good position for 2019 to not have so much weight on my back and better able to use wisdom in what commitments we DO make, and what we let pass us by (I am quick to say ‘yes’ to people and over-commit myself which takes time away from family and packs on the stress).
So for the Stant family, the way forward for 2019 is to simplify everywhere we can, be wise in the commitments we make, and and invest in the quality of our family time, first.