Me and my wife seperated about a month and a half ago. She has a major anger problem that started to effect our kids and I told her she had to go until we can work it out.. Yelling and screaming and what not that was just unnecessary. (in short anyway. not that simple)... So now she lives with her mother and her son (we have two. One mine and one hers from previous relationships) I've been giving her money on every pay day to keep them fed, clothed etc... Meanwhile, we have only gone to one councling session of a schedualed 4. She keeps canceling them and telling me she has some other important thing to do. Meanwhile, I can never get a hold of her less and less. She has a cell phone so it should be an issue. It's gotten to the point now that I don't hear from her unless it's pay day. [sarcastic voice] Strangly I don't have a problem getting her on her cell on pay day either [/sarcastic voice] I'm getting the strange feeling that she couldn't give a **** less that we are seperated and on our way to divorce and she just wants to keep it going long enough to get money out of me. I just put in a 90 hour work week and got a promotion. My next check is going to be HUGE with all the OT. What does she say? Not "Congrats on the promotion" or "good for you" or "i bet your tired"... she asks if it means she will get more money this week. We have our next session schedualed for tuesday and I get paid on wed. I think I am going to open a can of worms there..... if she shows that is. If not.... I dunno Any comments?