What do you do when you have been keeping a secret for a long time. and this secret is and has been for the past several months, tearing you up inside. And you think that you should come clean and tell the person that it involves. yet the person that it involves doesn't give a rats ass about you. and wants nothing to do with you, and won't even talk to you anyways. yet this secret has been killing you slowly from the inside, causeing you not to sleep at night for almost two weeks, causing you to "forget" to eat , and in turn lose 18 lbs in not even a month...(when i say foget, i mean my mind is else where, and i don't even think about eating), causing you to go days at a time without even getting out of bed. Everything inside of me screams to tell the person and to let it out. but another part of me screams, how can you do that when the person involved won't even speak to you, or even acknowledge your presence. And on top of all that, #1.you know that if you did tell this person, it could very well hurt this person even more than you are hurting. and you do not want to hurt this person, and #2. you know that if you tell this person, the person would become extreamly upset at you. what do you do?