i've been in jail.lost the love one of my life,lost my MOM (at least she was asleep),lost my best friend(heroin over dose), my dogs died,BUT yesterday was the worst. i'm sure you have all heard the ford and gm are closing plants. well i live in the detroit area and it all trickles down.work is slow cuz of that and winter.i'm trying to refinance the house BUT cuz i was laid off last winter(it was supposed to be 6 weeks and ended up being three months). anyway that knocked my credit score from a AA to a B. so i went from getting money at closing to having to pay at closing.this i hear at 5P.M. on the same day i hear that DTE(our gas and electric company in wayne county) wants to join the bills together and i need $150.00 to do it.why i don't know.plus i have already wasted 5 vacation days trying to get the crib ready.so i come home feeling beat up and the wife is mad about something. and i see my little man playing on the computer,mom gives him a little candy and mom and i sorta argue.THEN i see my little guy looking scared. he was chocking on the candy we had to do the squeeze and lift remover,he pucked and i was very happy.i had that visual in my head for days.my little guy could not breath.and i swear i was crying after he was cool.all the financial crap went away when i saw my bestest little man dying. MAN i was scared.