ok guys heres my story, and a need a little advise. about 6 months or so ago, my old lady's friend was cheating on her husband. well, he kicked her out, and we offered her a place to stay till she either worked things out, or moved on. about the third night she was here, her husband called over here drunk as sh!t, and was looking for her. he basically blamed my wife for everything that happened, called her alot of dirty names and threatened her life. it was all my wife could do to keep me from going over there and beating the life out of him. when he wouldnt apologize and she defended him "oh he was just drunk, he didnt mean it" i threw her out. he then got really pissed at me and made a few more death threats. fast forward to today. went to the gym. he is a member there. he says "whats up" like nothing ever happened. i thought by our previous dealings that we really werent on a talking basis. i say "whats up" and go about my business. couple of minutes later, he comes up and starts talking to me. i walk off to avoid saying whats really on my mind and avoiding a confrontation. instead of being a man about it, he goes home and tells his wife how "immature" i am and that his wife is no longer allowed to talk to my wife. did i mention that on several occasions he has used coke while his 1yr old son was sleeping? talk about me being immature. what im wondering is, what would you guys do in this situation? for me fighting is not an option as alot of times, my son will be with me while i am at the gym. not to mention i am not willing to give up my gym membership on account of this loser. i mean ive tried to make it very clear that i want nothing to do with this guy. but then again, stomping his a$$ into the ground would give me a warm fuzzy feeling for the rest of my days.