My wife just got a job a few weeks ago after 3 1/2 years of staying home with the kids. She also started school fulltime We work opposite shifts so when moms at work Dad is "Mr. Mom"!!! It was easy coming home to a clean house and just playing with the kids. I find myself drinking more at night after the kids go to bed I sound like my wife now.....I just cleaned up this mess, what's wrong with the 2 of you!!! I've been wrenching on my rig for BB with 2 toddlers (Boy 3 and Girl 1 1/2) running around picking up Daddy's tools and disappearing It's pretty frustrating. Damnit, Day care is too expensive, they need to start school sooooooooon When my wife gets home there is still no relief, she has to study for school. I find work is my new safe haven for peace and quite So who else pulls double duty?