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guess there no easy way.. nor do i have that kinda cash
Take this going from a kid supporting himself through college at the moment:
Don't run 40"s yet! But if you already have them, leave the front open and forget putting money into it. Replace parts from junkyards as much as possible, get the cheap chinese lifetime warranty parts from your local "parts" store (Kragen, Shucks, Vatozone..). If you don't have crossover already, I'd say leave your swaybar on and run stock steering. No sense in buying a D44 steering arm, you'll have trouble selling it for much later.
Keep a really close eye on your steering arm studs. If they loosen at all, they will shear and you will most likely have to replace the knuckle (ask me how I know!

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Check junkyard rigs for aftermarket parts. The Pick N Pulls around me have tons of GMs with 4-6" lifts (not good ones), but you can snag blocks, steering arms, pitman arms, etc. and get them for stupid cheap.
I have a bunch of 1/2 ton stuff left over, including a 4" push-pull steering arm. I'm sure there's tons of people on here like myself that would send you their old 1/2 - 3/4 ton scraps for the cost of the shipping.
Question about this: If you get all the best shafts and joints what about the spider gears in the carrier. The are still stock, won't they just fail quickly too?
Any damage to the carrier is most likely going to cost you a lot more money than shafts/ujoints and will most certainly be more involved and require purchasing a few more tools. Great thing is a 60 swap when you already have an 8 lug rear is cake, other than wrestling the heavy f***er under there. Just did mine last night. I will say that it really blows when the smallest rollers you have around are 35"s and you only have 24" jackstands.