Okay, here is some more food for thought. I currently have a 12 bolt rear with a detroit, 4.56's and superior axle shafts running on 36's. I have spun the tubes twice now but never broke a shaft or ring gear teeth (I built it all myself). First time was on the rocks (did a quick mig weld and good to go) the next time was floggin the piss out of it at Hollister (full throttle to get over an obsticle) rear axle wrap hop and came down on the throttle still and this time broke the housing where the tube goes in and spun the tube and bend a main leaf and roached a rear driveline u-joint and straps. Welded up again this time with stick and stainless rod along with a traction bar. So far so good. Running Dusy trail in 1.5 weeks and have CUCV axles coming by frieght as we speak.
All that being said, if you see yourself wheelin hard or running bigger tires than 35's, just jump right to the 14FF and deal with the diff plow for now, cheaper in the long run.