First off, you need to be able to determine what year your 465 is from. There are 2 versions of the 465. One has the 10 spline output shaft and the other has a 32 spline output.
The 10 spline runs up to '80.
The 32 spline starts at '81 and runs up.
In order to use the correct 205 to the 465, you need to find any 10 spline 205 from '84 on older to use with the 465 and and 205 from '85 on up to use with the '81 on up 465.
Get it?
The 32 spline 465 was started in '81, but they used the 208 t-case.
The K30's used the 10 spline 465/205 up to '84.
The following year of '85 is when the 205 was employed to the 32 spline 465.
So, to make a long explaination short, you need an '85 or newer 205 to use with any '81 and newer 465 with 32 splines.
But if you have the 10 spline 465, you need any '80 and older 205 or any '84 and older 205 from a K30.
The crossmembers run in the "flat" style up to '84.
'85 started the "double hump" members which use a shorter adaptor between the tranny and t-case, height-wise.
Since you have a '90 model truck, try to find a 465/205 from any '85 and newer K30 and you will be able to reuse the current crossmember under your truck now without modifications.