Check your grounds on the block. It’s not an 8.1 specific thing, but a smart starting point for diag.
I will say this I did have a random stall issue after my 8.1 install and it ended being the ground on the back of the head not being tight.
As far as the Tac/dbw codes, those don’t normally result in a stall. Reduced power for sure but not a stall. Things to check would be the throttle body itself. Carbon buildup causing the throttle blade to hang will set correlation codes.
Check connections and the pedal assembly, Tac module and throttle body. Keep in mind correlation codes set because there is a difference between the Tac circuit “a” and “b”. Any time there is a difference between the two percentages the fail mode is to set the code and drop the engine to idle. It you have any scan tool you can watch the values and see which side is off. Between the pedal and Tac module or Tac module and throttle body.
In my Workhorse days it was pretty common to have techs shotgun a pedal or Tac module at a unit and still had a problem which would usually lead to a wiring issue. It’s worth your time to pull up the diagnostic charts for the codes and run the testing down.