I like the Aussie locker for the D44, that's what I had. But in your case I would use the Lock Right front and rear since the Aussie isn't available for the 12bolt. To me using the same locker front and rear just makes things simplier.
If you're going to keep the D44 for a long time - especially if you plan to go 3/4-ton and not 1-ton - go ahead and lock it. Otherwise if you don't think you'll have the D44 more than a year, keep it open.
When you install the front locker you gotta pull the shafts. Replace the joints while you're at and modify them for full circle retaining clips.
If you plan to swap in a 14b, just get a Lock Right for the rear. I loved my Detriot for the 12bolt, but don't waste the money if you're swapping in the next couple of years. A Detroit will require you set up the gears again, which is costly if you can't do it yourself on top of the cost of the unit itself.
The Detroit True-Track limited slip in the D44 would also require you to set up gears again.
I ran a D44/12b combo, rear locked with Detroit for 2years and both locked for a good year of wheelin'. Didn't break anything in the D44. I had fully rebuilt both axles, and ran 37s. If you keep in mind what you're running, you can do it. You just can't use the hammer-down 1-ton philosophy.
Before I had the front locker, I did strip several teeth off a ring and pinion in the rear with the Detroit. The Detroit and alloy shafts held up to get me 10-miles back to town. Found out the ring and pinion were older than the axle by 7years and they weren't setup properly with the Detroit install.
Personally I would argue that a front locker would help reduce some strain on parts if the vehicle is driven properly. I felt with a front locker I could "crawl" a lot of obstacles I would have had to use momentum and bad 1/2-ton juju hopping to clear otherwise. Plus with the open diff you are putting all the torque on one axle shaft, whereas with the locker you're splitting the torque between two shafts.
And I still carriered spare axle shafts for the front and rear. If you have them you'll never need 'em, if you don't you will. Well that's Murphy's Law anyways.