Have you considered regearing? I think you mentioned you got 4.10s And I noticed you got 33-35s. Wouldnt that be like trying to tow with stock tires and 3.42s? Just and idea. If you put 5.13s in it I think it would be night and day difference. Just suggestion
You may be more comfortable in a new dodge with the cummings, however saving thousands when you would only use it for towing 2000mi/yr to me would make me more comfortable.. Just sayin.