I don't like saying "don't use poly" on here because so many people do, and really don't hear much bad about it.
Of course, poly binds (which is why they squeak and need lube) so maybe thats why yours are coming apart. Does it look like they are being "twisted" and ripping?
Bushing bind is probably a very small issue with most trucks on here, the trucks are MUCH heavier than most cars that people install poly in, so the binding issue isn't as apparent. Besides, with all the other noise (tures, tranny, no sound deadener) the poly squeak if present won't be a big deal.
Haven't checked with anyone to see if the Del-a-lum bushings (global west sells them I think) are made for the trucks, but for most, they would probably work great. I hear very few people complain about them on similar car applications.