Swapping out my Grant wheel for a 90's truck wheel. The wheel will only go on so far. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong but I've chased the splines with a file to get the old crud out. I've got another 1/8" to go before the splines are flush. I've torqued on it like it were a lug nut, just coming up to the line between stupid donkey and just right.
Also, I've got a washer under the nut, I don't like grinding.
Also, I've got a washer under the nut, I don't like grinding.

Now people will make fun of how ugly it is there. 
. I like the bigger diameter of it vs the aftermarket wheels.