Re: D60\'s front and rear
If you're only going to run 36s that can easily be done on 1/2 ton stuff if you're after superior ground clearance and a '60 would gladly take the load with stock axleshafts.
A 14 bolt is no more prone to pinion seal leaks than any other axle. It already has shafts that are very large, nearly unbreakable, and 30 spline straight out of the box. If you shave it, the ground clearance will be similar or better than any stock housing Dana 60. Disk brakes are also an easier swap.
It sounds to me that unless you want a selectable locker, the Dana 60 rear would be a poor choice. I'd imagine a 10 or 12 bolt rear that was sufficiently beefed would probably hold up just nicely, and a 14 bolt SF would be cheaper, easier to swap in, and work out great for you.
Of course there is always the 14 FF which is bombproof, easy to swap in, cheap and easy to put disks on etc.
In short....forget the Dana 60, it's not well suited to what you're doing unless you have unlimited budget and time.