Desperate For Help!!!

[Philly87]

Guys I know this is the wrong forum but please bare with me for just a sec. Let me say one word to get your attention then please help. DIVORCE! Why man? Why do families have to break up? Whay am I not good enough for my wife? I'm gonna loose everything!!! The love of my life, seeing my 2 kids everyday, and everything else is just materialistic... Guys please help it hurts soooooo bad... Tell me some of you have made it through.

 

[Monster512]

Everything Happens for a reason. Time heals everything. one day you will look back and realize that you really are better off. Keep your head up. And do whatever it takes to keep those kids in your life, no matter what the court papers say. Be there for em all the time. dont let em forget who dad is. Hang in there.

 

[Brocky]

Good luck with it man. I am on the fence with my woman myself and dont know which side I am gonna end up on. I have two wonderful kids aswell and ...... I dont know. Others around me have survived it. I am in the middle of it so I really dont have any advice but to hang in there and hopefully it all works out in the end

 

[Philly87]

It's just not fair at all. My kids don't deserve this. My parents have been married 39 years. Through thick and thin they haven't given up on each other. Isn't that what saying I Do is all about? I'd do anything for my kids and my wife. I don't even know which way is up right now... I hate the pounding in my chest. It hurts so bad emotionally that is hurts physically...

 

[chevy wrangler]

Phil from 4wp in El Paso right?? give me your # i think i know someone that can help.. maybe we can go wheeling to help take some stuff of your mind

 

[Philly87]

Yup thats me... Not with 4WP's anymore though!! Talk about a blessing in disguise. I'm back at MSD Ignition. 915-539-4691

 

[chevy wrangler]

keep your head up and you will get trough the thick of it all.

 

[bowen1]

The best thing that I did when this happened to me, after being married for 20 years, was get professional help. After 6-8 months of psychiatric help and at the same time therapy things made more sense. It's hard to not get down on yourself, but remember that your kids now ARE the most important part of your life and because of that YOU are forced to take the high road and be the example to your kids.

 

[Philly87]

All I can think about is what I did wrong. What's wrong with me? Who are my kids gonna be around now? Who is she gonna spend her time with, the holidays with, her birthday? These are all supposed to be our time... I will do anything for my kids. I will take them anytime in fact I told her to go and leave them with me. I have to be the stability in their lives but how do I get to a stable point again? My head is messing with me so bad it's not even funny... I hate this feeling...!!!

 

[sope]

I haven't lived through it but it so happens my sister has just split with her husband. They have a 3 year old boy. It makes me sick as well and I'm just an observer and babysitter.
My advice is try to get along with the ex and be the best dad you can.

 

[Can Can]

Y'know, brother, we all feel bad for you, but you just can't keep posting up stuff in the Garage that doesn't belong here, especially when you admit you know it's wrong.

I'm gonna lock this, and maybe one of your buddies can buy you a membership so you can post up in the Lounge.