How does a Detroit locker work in all around weather? We get most nice weather but few ice storms and snow here in NC. I can not afford a ARB for my 14 bolt so looking at other options. YES in bad weather snow and ice I drive it in 4 wheel drive just to be safe even if road is barely covered to be safe and the other jackasses on the road!
I asked almost this exact question a couple years ago. Opinions vary a lot. Here is mine:
After daily driving my Detroit-equipped K5 all this winter, I love it. I, too, was afraid of spinning out on ice. That hasn't been an issue. Yes, it drives funny, I can get the rear end to wiggle if I modulate the throttle. But I can also get it to track just fine if I drive steadily. Mine happens to be nearly silent, I hafta work at it to make it bang or clang. It chirps the tires if I'm sloppy (i.e., giving too much throttle while in a U-turn). But overall it is no detriment to driving, IMO. It's just something you'll get used to.
I drive my truck up to the speed limit (55MPH for most of our roads) in 2WD or 4WD. My hubs have stayed locked all winter. I do get a slight driveline humming if 4WD is engaged at highway speed (but not if it's just the hubs locked). My other rigs do not hum at highway speed like that. Either way, it's not the locker's fault.
Combined with an Eaton Posi in the front, this rig handles snow very well. Deep stuff is a lot of fun now. I have had this rig stuck twice this winter, both times in the ditch. Once I was driving through the ditch and stopped (

), the second time I was driving on glare ice (slowly) and swung wide on a turn. Front axle broke loose, not the back one. I shouldn't have been running 4WD into that turn given the ice cover.

Both times, having the extra traction greatly reduced the amount of shoveling that I had to do.
A few times through the winter I have fired up my open-differential K10 and tried trekking through the same tracks. The K10 struggles through stuff that the K5 can walk through in 2WD. A little bit of that is tire quality, but most of it is not. I may never like open differentials again.
Particularly for someone living in tropical North Carolina, you will be just fine with a Detroit or a Trutrac or an Eaton Posi or a G80 or most of the options out there (I'd avoid a spool or a Lincoln Locker).
Just my opinion, YMMV.