I think the problem is that how some of us drive, and how the rigs are setup, the weight of the "stationary" tire along with the amount of torque going into the diff is just too much, and the lockup is too harsh.
I was playing with my truck in the snow in the driveway, and I could definitely hear it "clunk" as it locked up. Anything that reduces how quickly it equalizes axle speed SHOULD reduce the load on the carrier when it does lockup. Basically, as I see it, the problem is that transition from unlocked to lock is too fast. Slipping would increase the lock time, thus allowing the "stationary" axle to more closely match the spinning axle.
Of course, it also probably depends on the age and condition of the unit, and Eaton has probably made subtle changes through the years that changes the operational characteristics to try and keep up with the habits of modern drivers and the increased loads the axles are seeing both in power input and GVWR.