OK, with everyones help, ideas, links....I tested the brake circuit today on the trailer. I unhooked from the Burb, I took apart the plug on the trailer, and used a 12amp battery charger. I hooked the neg to the white wire terminal, and the pos to the blue wire terminal, with alligator clips. Turned on the charger, and spun the tires, and they stop immediately. OK, the trailer must be ok, I figure, so I check my recep. on the truck. Seems the ground has gotten rusty over the years so I repair that first. Continuity shows .03. Good on that now. I check the pin in the recep for power from the brake controller, and get nothing with the brake pedal pushed or the manual finger slide control engaged. So back up to the cab to check the controller output again. I just replaced this thing last Friday, and now I got no power out again. WTF caused this. I jump a wire from the batt. supply (12v) to the brake wire heading to the back of the truck. I get full 12v back there now. My brake switch supply is giving me a good bright test light when the brake is depressed, and my ground circuit to the controller is sound.
So I got another controller today, and will put that in first thing in the am. I'm pretty sure that has to be the problem. But I find it a bit surprising that the new one was bad.
Thanks a bunch guys.