grit work sounds fine, I'll often shoot right over 80 if I'm loading up some mils...... just make sure to wet out any dry areas with resin.. I like to thin it out a bit so it soaks in better.......
i tend to prefer PVA as a drying aid, as opposed to wax, but either way can work.... I don't recommend any use of styrene, always been a prob with yellowing anytime styrene is in a mix... for gel thinning I only use MEK, no yellowing...
ANY texture will make it vastly more difficult to maintain, thus the reason gel'd non-skid on boats is challenging.. it's why patterned non-skid is nice over grit versions, you can run buffers over them easier... but if your running a foam roller, your texture will be very minimal..... thus it could more than likely be buff waxed down the road...
all that said, you may wanna check into Duratec Clear additive for your final gel coating... I used to do 2 coats unwaxed gel, than finish off with wax and Duratek in the last heavy coat... the shine holds VASTLY better than regular gel....
https://www.fibreglast.com/product/duratec-clear-hi-gloss-gel-coat-additive
technically, they where shot with a spatter gun at the factory, but you can also add extra course non-skid grit to a last couple coats to achieve that look, for the most part.. it's pretty close...
Awlgrip Griptex extra coarse non-skid additive for professional application. Provides durable, slip-resistant surface on decks and marine finishes.
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