I've run cheap gaskets, quality gaskets, cheap (Flowtech) headers and better (Hedman Elites) headers... never had an issue with the bolts. The trick is to keep them tight right away, or at least that's what works for me. Check them after a couple days, then after a week, then another week, then after a month. They should be fine the last several times, it's just to be safe.
If you wait a month to check them, they will be really loose. Then you have to screw them in a ton and a month later they will be really loose again and so on. It's like if you don't keep them in place they won't "seat".