I had a similar issue in my car. I had wired in new pigtails, and stupidly connected black to black, white to white, and green to green without consulting a wiring diagram. Turns out the white on the aftermarket pigtails should have went to green, and vice-versa. So if you've done that recently, double check the wiring- headlights do weird things when you wire the low beam to the high and the high to the low.
Also, in my search for what was wrong, I was told that failed headlight switches and high beam switches can cause similar problems, especially if the failure allows current from the high circuit to get to the low, or the other way around. You might also want to inspect the wires near the pigtail and where they're close together- if any of them have worn down over the years and left wire exposed there might be current crossing between the two circuits.