I know I know don't lynch me 
I am currently deployed and GF's pickup (2004 F-250 6.0) crapped out. She had it taken to the local shop the family uses. Weak fuel pump is the culprit however, It has a few oil leaks and the shop is stating it's the oil cooler O rings and sending unit that are leaking. They recommend replacing the oil cooler since it get stripped down to do the O rings anyway.
My concern is the factory oil cooler is known crap design anyway, and it hurts my heart a little bit to spend $1000 on labor to replace a part that sucks to begin with.
Does anybody have any experience with these issues? I have been reading on the Bulletproof oil cooler and upgraded EGR cooler. These two pieces are major fixes to the 6.0 issues. Replacing the oil cooler and O rings with labor is about $1800 and that leaves the OEM EGR cooler. I could buy both the upgraded pieces for about the same price and do the work myself. The truck gets driven very little with me gone. I am considering just having the pump fixed so it's driveable, and telling her to minimize use until I get home and then tackle the rest myself.
The truck is paid off, not worth crap on a trade in so I am sorta unsure what to do. Lose lose situation with these things.

I am currently deployed and GF's pickup (2004 F-250 6.0) crapped out. She had it taken to the local shop the family uses. Weak fuel pump is the culprit however, It has a few oil leaks and the shop is stating it's the oil cooler O rings and sending unit that are leaking. They recommend replacing the oil cooler since it get stripped down to do the O rings anyway.
My concern is the factory oil cooler is known crap design anyway, and it hurts my heart a little bit to spend $1000 on labor to replace a part that sucks to begin with.
Does anybody have any experience with these issues? I have been reading on the Bulletproof oil cooler and upgraded EGR cooler. These two pieces are major fixes to the 6.0 issues. Replacing the oil cooler and O rings with labor is about $1800 and that leaves the OEM EGR cooler. I could buy both the upgraded pieces for about the same price and do the work myself. The truck gets driven very little with me gone. I am considering just having the pump fixed so it's driveable, and telling her to minimize use until I get home and then tackle the rest myself.
The truck is paid off, not worth crap on a trade in so I am sorta unsure what to do. Lose lose situation with these things.