After much more Google fu, I am convinced the 2001 suburban did not get a junction block. Suburbans seem to get them in 2002. I still haven't found my short. Haven't looked much more.
The license plate frame back up camera has 6 led lights, when I reverse these lights light. Towing the boat last weekend I needed to use the mechanical surge brake lock out. Seems my trailer wiring isn't powering the reverse circuit, I had thought the camera lights were hooked to the same circuit as the trailer plug.
Move inspection of trailer wiring is next step for me.