You just installed the new rad. in Nov. of 04? I thought it was only Oct. 04 /forums/images/graemlins/eek.gif Anyway, just flush out the rad. real good with the garden hose until only clear water comes out. I agree with the new hoses, belts, h2o pump, and T-stat.
I don't know about grinding the flywheel, unless you have a manual trans and then it gets refaced. But I had to replace my flywheel and it only ran about $70 new, so you may be better off just picking up a new one for your new application.
Where in NY are you?