If it's available for your axle, cost meaning nothing, I'd go for the Eaton E-locker.
Last I had heard/read, reliability is a non-issue with them, and the ONLY complaints I seem to hear about the ARB's is the air system or lines. I like the electrical aspect of the e-locker.
Then again, if you could use the selectables with a traction control system, they'd be the best. It's not a big deal to flip a switch or push a button I guess, but non-selectable stuff is always there right when you need it, without having to act to engage it.
Mostly street driven I'd think a selectable to be the easiest on you for driving comfort. Mainly or all off-road, locked. Your application is the most important aspect of this decision IMO.