There were several things wrong at once. Seemed to start after adding the lift.
I had noticed the transmission mounts being oil soaked and super soft/spongy a while before, but had been unable to find replacements, so they were still in use.
I don't recall how many times the bellhousing broke, but it was several. I know that we had it welded at least once. And I replaced the housing several times.
One of the many times I was under the truck, I pushed or pulled on the driveshaft and it moved sideways in the middle, near the splines/ slip-joint part. Was able to shift it side to side or up and down. Or, if pulling in the middle, you could sorta make an elliptical type motion. I'm not sure how to explain it, but kinda like the driveshaft were a jump rope. Fixed positions on the ends, but moving in the middle. Not a whole lot, but the splines weren't tight.
The last time I replaced the transmission housing, we found new mounts and installed them. Also, having found the driveshaft in poor condition, I had it rebuilt and lengthened. This combination seemed to do the trick, as I didn't break anymore housings.