I've gotten comments on the stock 6.2L diesel mufflers (duals) that were on my truck, as they were really tame when cruising, and just the right tone when stomping on it. Walker
http://www.walkerexhaust.com/products/mufflers-muffler-assemblies/quiet-flow-ss apparently makes OEM stuff, and replicates it. Going with a later 3" in/out stock muffler would probably replicate that.
Outside of "stock" (Walker OEM replacements), Borla from all the testing I've seen, makes the quietest muffler out there. Edit: and by outside of Walker, I mean it's still louder than stock, but not as loud as the rest of the aftermarket. Also pricey.
I will be going with Walker's SS stuff whenever I get around to doing my full exhaust system, which will be the last time anyone ever has to replace exhaust on that truck. FWIW, according to email from Walkers tech staff, many if not all of the "stock replacement" mufflers are stainless, whether the part number reflects it or not.
It is apparently impossible to establish hard and fast results on mufflers. It seems it has a lot to do with the individual vehicle (exhaust construction: diameter, bends, length, converter, plus engine displacement, headers, manifolds, etc) as to how it ends up sounding.
I would rather err on the side of quiet (even though thats my intent lol) than end up with an exhaust system that drones. Exhaust is one of those "do it once do it right" things in my book, really don't want to have to replace a muffler just because of sound, and that seems to be REALLY common when it comes to people doing exhaust work.
If I can fit it, the truck is going to get a converter, resonator, and large muffler. If all I hear while driving is the radio, I'll be happy.