It'll vary from spring to spring, too, and they do settle with age. If your buddy's set has been mounted for a while, they're prolly "broken in" ... but if you were to, say, mount them on your truck with one leaf removed each side, you might find your truck sitting higher or lower, and one side might be different than the other.
There is not so much science in tuning leaf springs -- at least for us shadetree engineers (aka "rednecks") -- as there is trial and error. And it's a hell of a lot of trial. I still have a pile of 3/8"-24 grade 8 bolts with the heads rounded in the grinder in a wide variety of lengths

, all from making my own spring center pins as I fiddled with my springs. My 56"s started out as a nine-leaf set off my crewcab and ended up as six leaves, I think, and my 52"s are a composite of
two pairs of stock rears. I seem to recall spending an entire afternoon just juggling the leaves from left side to right and back to balance the truck to more or less level.
The other thing is that if you reduce the number of leaves, sure, your truck gets lowered, but it also gets flexier. This is okay for a while but at some point you end up bending the springs into an S shape or just breaking one off, which kinda ruins your day
-- A